Adviser: Okay, is everyone here? Great. So, John*, why don’t you tell us what you’ve worked on this week?
John: Well, I did…
Adviser, interrupting: Actually, John, I’m just going to hummer you for a minute while I show them the data.
Female grad student: Um, what?
Adviser: I’m going to hummer him and just show everyone this, you know, like run over him like a big fucking car.
Female grad student: Uh, okay, but you can’t say that.
Adviser: What? Why?
Female grad student: I’ll tell you after lab meeting.
Adviser, angrily: What is so bad about saying that? Is it like mean or something to “hummer” someone?
Female grad student: Well it’s not mean, it’s just… Yeah, don’t say that. Ever. We’ll talk later.